What A Man Thinks

Alright I'ma help somebody out with this one. When a man makes an effort to know you whether it be thru texts, phone calls, or even Facebook what he's really trying to do is learn about you, understand why you do what you do, what makes you happy, sad, what drives you what you love, what you hate, to learn how he can relate. He just might be attempting to build something with you just because he cares about you, much less about what he desires from you but more about what he can give you. A lot of the times men won't just come right out and tell you that Hey, I'm kinda feeling you a lil bit. We prefer to just let you know thru our actions where our heart lies at and I promise you that if it's in the right place there will be no questions about it. You won't have to wonder "does he really love me?" or "does he even care?" But you might start questioning if you are worth all of the devotion. The truth is yes you are and you are worth more than we could possibly give. When a man buys you things, he isn't attempting to buy you, this is just all we know to do to express a sacrifice, to express our chivalry, to express our concern for your monetary well being we will give you what we don't have so that you can keep what you own. The primary driving force behind a man giving a gift is just an expression of care, the fact that you might like him a little more after it is only a bonus. We have our thank you from your appreciation. In the end that's all a man really desires from a relationship. Honestly we just want to believe that we are appreciated and respected for what we attempt to do or what we do. It's not about you being beautiful in anyone else's eyes as long as we can lay down and think "Thank You God" every night.