Cheaters

I wonder why when men cheat, the first thing they say is you know I love you right? Like that makes the fact that you have jeapordized the union OK because you make a profession of love that may very well be empty and void of any reality. I'm not referring to just a relationship although that definitely places major strain on it I'm speaking of the relationship that is made in the image of our relationship with God. Then they tend to offer this weak excuse that I'm just a man as if they expect the woman they are engaged in this partnership with to simply believe that the possession of a penis suddenly makes them susceptible to stray outside of the union for some level of satisfaction. Honestly these are cop-outs and excuses as to why men feel they are entitled to cheat: When I needed you you weren't there, She wasn't interested in becoming intimate, She never she never she never......But when it boils right down to it, it comes to a lack of commitment from the men. Although relationship means communication a lot of men don't try and communicate or reach out to the woman. They just see what she's not doing and find someone who does do what she isn't and they find themselves in compromising positions and before they know it, they've gotten themselves caught up in lust and adultery. When all of this could easily have been avoided with a simple "Baby I'm feeling neglected, here's why." Honestly it just makes sense to talk to the woman you profess to love about issues within the relationship and not just stepping outside of the relationship when things don't go your way. A relationship is built upon understanding, communication, and a willingness to work through problems. Next time, don't blame it on you being a man, just blame it on you being too lazy to care.