Relationship Advice from God

I really feel like people do not know what to do once they enter into a relationship. Almost like a case of I got her now so I don't have to do much to keep her attention. WRONG. You see the key to keeping her is most definitely submission. You have to be able to submit what normally you would desire to do simply to please her. Yet at the same time keep consciousness of God's will above all things that you do for her. Meaning yes fellas we should strive to attempt to keep this woman that God has given us happy. while at the same time honoring God in all that we do. By no means should we think of her above God or anything like that, what I'm saying is we are to mimic Christ in the way that we love our women. see how Christ served the Church, serve your women, how he gave of himself, give to your women, see how he loved the Church, love your women how devoted and faithful he was to the Church be that way to your women. how Christ had compassion on the church, have compassion on your women. see the problem is that a lot of brothers make it a whole lot harder than it necessarily has to be. we going off what the world says about something that God created. He knows it's in's it's outs it's intracracies. First off, most men feel like they have to be the dominant one in a role when in actuality God has made it very clear that the man is not the dominant one, but the supportive one. He should be the rock that she needs in times of trouble, the reassuring voice when her faith is weak, the love when all she sees is hatred. we are to uplift and encourage each other. the man is not supposed to take on a daughter father approach once the knot is tied. No. You are supposed to keep on being that rock that she can lean on, and you should not be so proud or boastful about "being a man" that you cannot confide in her to do the same to you. For God created us helpmates one to another not hinderances one to another. Men seem to want validation from other males but be careful whom you seek validation from for not every male is a true Man of God. If you truly seek validation as to how to be a man and how to go about being a man, then look no further than Jesus. study how Jesus took what was around Him and made it even greater after it came in contact with Him. He has challenged men to do the same. not necessarily to that degree, but in principle if you as a man come in contact with something, make it greater. Don't give it back the same way you found it; such is the principle of a parable like the master and the three servants. That being said, when a woman does give you her heart DO NOT ABUSE IT!!! treat it as delicately as you would a flower, a butterfly or something along those lines. something that you cherish. act as though this woman is the only woman whom you will ever love. treat her like you would want someone to treat your own mother.but the key thing is not to expect anything in return. when you do things for her, do them simply because you love her. and that being said. Love is not an emotion a feeling or anything that can change, love is a constant.