It seems like some women have forgotten what a real man looks like, you know the ones, always saying there's no good men left....well I put together a little letter to let you know what we really look like:

If you don't like being walked to your car, don't waste your time protesting because it goes against all that I stand for. If you like being respected and called by your name the first time I talk to you then I must be a breath of fresh air in this era of HEY LIL MAMA and HEY SHORTY or even just HEY. If you like actual conversation about actual things that affect and effect people and the difference between the two then hey, I'm your guy. If you want somebody who knows what it takes to relate to a woman as a sister first then as a woman who interests him by all means speak to me when you see me. If you want someone who remains open about his past and isn't into the games and the lies that you say pervade most men these days, hey look at me. I know you might not like the wrapper and all but it's what's in the box that really matters. if you like being treated as you deserve and not as the world dictates look no further. but what bothers me is the perception of gentlemen as being weak and passive when that could be no farther from the truth. you see a gentleman has much strength that he knows how to keep in check. when he could easily crush your spirit, he chooses to build you up. he chooses to take you as you are and not make silly suggestions of things you could change because he realizes that there are some things that he does that he could change as well. if you don't want a man who hates to see you pull out your checkbook/ wallet and pay then don't worry about me. if you don't want a man who seeks to cater to you in the smallest ways not even necessarily the big and visible ways like opening your car doors and seating you and pushing in your chair then don't bother. if you don't want a man who knows what true love looks like and does, then don't worry. if you don't want a man who is willing to meet you halfway or even go the extra mile to ensure your comfort then I'm not your guy. if you don't want a man who follows Christ first in his life and follows Christ's example in his ways of thoughts actions and mannerisms then don't bother with me. I'm just a gentleman.